I'd say that God helps us and wants us to rely on him. He helps us remember that we will fall on our own, but through Him we can be redeemed.
I think God wants His people to help one another, that no one is an island to themselves. The biggest problem of humanity is selfishness, if people took into account how their behavior has an effect on others and thought before they acted, the world would be a better place.
Frankly, I believe that Jesus is the way, the truth, and the light, and that He is sin free, was resurrected after a death on the cross, and that Salvation comes through believing in that and professing it.
I also believe reject that will cause someone to face eternal damnation when they die if they don't repent. Frankly, I don't want to see that happen to anyone. I don't care how much people may hate me or what I believe in, but I wouldn't wish eternity in a lake of fire to anyone.
I can be a jerk, I'm sorry for my previous behavior, if people want to hold that against me that's their choice.