> Some might say it's foolish to ask for dating advice in the bin, but here goes...
>
> There's a lady in my church choir that I had planned to ask out on Sunday.
> Unfortunately, I ran out of time on Sunday and wasn't able to talk to her.
> I figured I'd just call her instead, but when I thought about it I remembered that
> she's never told me her phone number.
> Her home phone number is in the phone book and her office number is on her college's
> (she's a teacher) website, but would it seem too creepy on my part to call her by
> using that information?
>
> I suppose I could just wait and hope that I see her next Sunday, but that would limit
> the days that we could go out if she did say yes (I'm leaving for drill on the Friday
> of that week and after that I'm going to Hawaii until April 28)
>
> There's also a pretty good chance that she's not interested in me, which might make
> things at choir awkward if I try to ask her out.
>
> What do you think I should do?
> Call her at her office number (admit that you got it from the college's website -
> cyberstalker)
> Call her at her home number (admit that you got it from the phone book - regular
> stalker)
> Wait until next Sunday. You shouldn't ask someone out on a first date over the phone.
> Don't ask her out at all. You're not ready.
> don't know / don't care
I would recommend not contacting her on a number she didn't provide. She'll probably just find it creepy.
Oh for Pete's sake.
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