Can't say I've *knowingly* had much experience with coconut oil. Coconut water is ok. I like the flavor of coconut. Although... in Chinese restaurants in Japan, there is a desert called almond tofu (Annin tofu) that blows coconut out of the water while having a somewhat similar taste.
I can't stand coconut meat though. Whether natural or artificial, the shredded coconut stuff feels like chewing on plastic. That sensation fucks with my head even eating the meat directly from a coconut.
I will be the last person to die in my lifetime.