My wifes impression: "was this supposed to be funny?" "what the hell is going on?" "The story does not make any sense, who the hell is this guy what does he have to do with what was going on?" "I am going outside for a smoke." "do you want another pop?" "no one noticed I was snoring did they?" "is it over yet" "why are they fighting yet again? It does not make any sense." "this popcorn sucks did they make it yesterday?"
As for me: My issues were it was about 30 mins too long. The story was all over the place. Then they moved the snoke conflict too soon in the story. Then one of the late themes in the movie was 'let go of the old' and clearly made it owned by 'the bad guys' then they did just that with pretty much everything in the established lore even things from the 'new series'. So when they blow up the falcon in the 3rd one I will not be surprised.
Most of all it was kinda boring. With some interesting battle set pieces. The tension was kind of 'meh'. If I still wore a watch it would have been checked many times during viewing. SW2 was the last time I did that. The other 7 people I saw it with said it was 'kinda boring'.