> Slowly she begins siphoning small amounts of money for this and that that she
> "needs", usually only around $200 at a time, then one occasion she asks and gets
> $5,000. She invites him out to meet and the first night he is there she takes him to
> a restaurant where they meet with her friends and family, and they get there and over
> 110 people are in the party. They chow down and then ask him to pay the whole bill.
> Skipping over a few similarly depressing stories and manipulation and guilt tripping,
> she is now trying to get in the guy's will to inherit his house, literally said "I
> don't want any money, I just want the house".
> Just accept the fact that you are white or black or whatever.
Your friend should get power of attorney and end that. Once the money is gone the drama will leave all by itself.