As Mr. Do has stated, language can be tricky, especially on a message board. Trust me - the tones that Mr. Do and I have used with you are tame compared to some others. I guess you didn't like my response. All I did was try to save you from being flamed. You're on your own from here.
I suspect this thread will eventually be locked.
Good luck with finding what your looking for. I really do hope that the end result is a pleasant one but I doubt it will be.