> I think it'd be much better to just talk to her next time you see her, don't push too > hard and definitely approach with the mental state that you don't expect much. After > some light chitchat, just throw it out there... offer to buy her coffee down the > street or whatever. Talking to her away from church is the objective now. It's > friendly and casual and is just for fun. See if you like her as much as you think you > might. Be mindful to show interest in what she's saying and ask questions to show > this. Try to ignore cleavage (if any). Chances are she'll appreciate all this and > start dropping hints if she's also into you. Do not feel bad if she's got plans and > turns you down. If she's got interest, she'll offer a raincheck.
This.
The ultimate goal is to get her locked in your basement dungeon and yaggy's approach sounds perfect.
Oh for Pete's sake.
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