@Tom: yeah. Complex sometimes, but you seem to be knowing of your path.
Also: You mean I'm getting laid? While the perhaps two-thirds of the 40 or so females I've been with were in the last ten years, I've still managed months at a time without any tang.
I one day in high school me and a guy talking about this couple of other kids who were openly smitten with each other. I remarked about the boy having to do things I wouldn't. The other guy said, 'you'll change'. I said, "I won't." 'You will.' "I won't. I know it."
And I haven't. (See the end of my above post to Bekkie.)
Consider it high comedy....sincere tragedy....whatever...don't take it personally.