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lharms
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Re: its a sad sad day
02/15/11 04:42 AM


Uh 'do stuff...'.

You enjoy video games (hell we all do or we wouldnt be on this board).

She probably doesnt like the games you are playing and feels like she isnt involved. To many people there is NOTHING more boring than watching someone play a video game.

She is not telling you to 'do stuff' she is telling you to stop shutting out life (probably her and 'chores').

You and she needs to come out and say what is wrong. She is shutting it in. You may be missing it by playing by yourself on the xbox.

Now this is all guesses. There is more going on here than your disappearing xbox. You need to sit down and talk to her. Do not yell. That just gets everyone pissed. Find out what is *really* wrong. Try this question 'honey, what is really wrong.' She will probably give you the straw that broke the camels back as it were. Press on it 'I know you are mad about that what is REALLY wrong'. Given the fact she has taken the step to take the xbox away she has put some thought into this. Go in knowing what you what. Time to play on your xbox. Also be prepared to hear things you may not like. You may need to do things you do not feel are important. But remember you are doing it for her, not because of her.

She is trying to get your attention and being rather blatant about it. Make it clear she can talk to you and that you will actually listen. Also make it clear that you want the same from her no more 'disappearing xboxs'. But be prepared to back that up.

Its all about the balance and paying attention to what is going on around you







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* its a sad sad day jumpmaniac81 02/14/11 05:59 AM
. * Re: its a sad sad day keshbach1  02/15/11 10:03 PM
. * Re: its a sad sad day DMala  02/15/11 05:34 PM
. * Re: its a sad sad day Jdurgi  02/15/11 05:59 AM
. * Re: its a sad sad day lharms  02/15/11 04:42 AM
. * Re: its a sad sad day redk9258  02/15/11 04:57 AM
. * Re: its a sad sad day CrapBoardSoftware  02/15/11 09:16 AM
. * Re: its a sad sad day Tomu Breidah  02/15/11 02:59 AM
. * Re: its a sad sad day dfrance  02/15/11 01:00 AM
. * Re: its a sad sad day Gor  02/14/11 10:37 PM
. * Re: its a sad sad day Hizzout  02/15/11 12:07 AM
. * Re: its a sad sad day CrapBoardSoftware  02/14/11 11:16 PM
. * Re: its a sad sad day redk9258  02/14/11 06:23 AM
. * Re: its a sad sad day GatKongModerator  02/14/11 07:09 AM
. * Re: its a sad sad day Hizzout  02/14/11 06:14 AM
. * No no no mogli  02/14/11 11:17 PM
. * Re: No no no Fever  02/14/11 11:36 PM
. * Re: No no no mogli  02/17/11 08:47 PM
. * Re: its a sad sad day Fever  02/14/11 09:57 PM
. * Re: its a sad sad day CrapBoardSoftware  02/14/11 10:05 PM
. * I'm not sure where to go with this one....<nt> italieAdministrator  02/14/11 06:03 AM
. * Re: I'm not sure where to go with this one....<nt> keshbach1  02/15/11 09:55 PM
. * Re: I'm not sure where to go with this one....<nt> jumpmaniac81  02/14/11 06:05 AM
. * Please explain your handle. It's for posterity, so please be honest. italieAdministrator  02/14/11 07:54 AM
. * Re: Please explain your handle. It's for posterity, so please be honest. jumpmaniac81  02/15/11 10:43 PM
. * Re: Please explain your handle. It's for posterity, so please be honest. keshbach1  02/16/11 01:05 AM
. * Re: Please explain your handle. It's for posterity, so please be honest. jumpmaniac81  02/16/11 05:39 PM
. * Re: Please explain your handle. It's for posterity, so please be honest. CrapBoardSoftware  02/16/11 04:42 PM
. * Re: Please explain your handle. It's for posterity, so please be honest. jumpmaniac81  02/16/11 06:28 PM
. * As Orc isnt here anymore... DR  02/16/11 07:41 PM
. * Anyone else humming "Goodbye Horses"? <nt> Sez  02/15/11 12:27 AM
. * Re: Anyone else humming "Goodbye Horses"? <nt> CrapBoardSoftware  02/15/11 09:14 AM
. * This one fits better... BIOS-D  02/15/11 05:18 AM
. * Re: Anyone else humming "Goodbye Horses"? <nt> Hizzout  02/15/11 05:09 AM
. * Re: Please explain your handle. It's for posterity, so please be honest. CrapBoardSoftware  02/14/11 03:08 PM
. * Re: Please explain your handle. It's for posterity, so please be honest. Gauntlet  02/14/11 03:37 PM
. * Re: Please explain your handle. It's for posterity, so please be honest. redk9258  02/14/11 05:20 PM
. * Re: Please explain your handle. It's for posterity, so please be honest. Gauntlet  02/14/11 10:16 AM
. * Re: Please explain your handle. It's for posterity, so please be honest. jumpmaniac81  02/15/11 10:39 PM

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