> > > If we were to follow the logic of a particular social view that seen the
> attractive
> > > woman as appearing to be complimented, but was actually being insulted
> >
> > I don't know what twisted paths in your mind make you say such things,
>
>
> Sarcasm?
>
> I'll have to assume at this point that you have not come across any
> posts/comments/replies on various other sites that portray this idea. It's no
> invention of my own.
>
> http://www.democraticunderground.com/1017225604#post1
>
> All those poor little catcalling males portrayed as total jerks when they were only
> giving compliments.
>
> I just threw up a little in my mouth as I typed that.
>
> > but I don't
> > think there are many social views like that. You keep distorting things to meet
> your
> > agenda. No one said that compliments are insults.
>
>
> Not believing that some of the things that were said to the lady were sincere
> compliments.... As if it were the Male's way of putting the attractive lady on the
> level of some animal. This is no invention of my own. As you can see in the above,
> quoted post. If you don't think this is what that person is conveying - then feel
> free to say what you think it means. This is where I'm getting this idea of
> 'compliment = insult'. Just because you haven't seen/read such remarks (before)
> doesn't mean they don't exist.
>
>
> No one even said anything about
> > compliments. It was harassment. If you think the people in all these vids wanted to
> > make a honest compliment and nothing else, or they wanted to be comrades and
> nothing
> > else, well go back to primary school.
>
>
> While I do think the 'dudes' were being sincere and honest about how they felt the
> lady looked, I can see how the lady can see the "compliments" as harassment. Does
> this mean you're starting to get through to me?
>
> I'm just saying that no ill intention should be focused on anyone that says things
> like; "Have a nice day." or "Hey beautiful!" They could've said something as innocent
> as "Hi." So, let's not draw parallels from someone being friendly to actual
> harassment... And there were indeed a few instances in the (other) video where there
> was harassment. Nothing too sleezy (definitely creepy!), but that's not to say it
> never happens.
>
> I can think they were jerks for doing something I wouldn't have half the guts to even
> try. But I'm not them. They would have just enough right to think I'm a wimp, or a
> sissy for not saying something.
>
>
> -----------------
>
> >
> > when someone opens their mouth, they should be responsible of what
> > and how they say. If someone I don't know and I have ZERO reasons to like, comes to
> > me in the subway telling me that I'm hot and we should come along, I would feel
> > disgusted equally, not flattered. And addressing anyone in such familiar terms like
> "hey
> > cutie" or "you're god's greatest creation honey" wether it's followed by "wanna go
> > home with me" or not, they deserve being punched in the face.
> > Why? Because maybe that way next time they'll think twice before opening their
> mouth.
> >
> > PUNCH THEM IN THE FACE OFTEN, IT'S HEALTHY FOR THEM. You're lucky this is just a
> post
> > and you're nowhere near me.
> >
> > Keep the compliments and flattering for people you know will expect them. Not many
> > people like to be judged by their looks alone.
>
>
> Are you the chief constable of the 'thought police'?
Dude, seriously, when are you going to learn? A man is not EVER allowed to initiate an interaction with a woman. Men need to sit is specially designated areas (not just anywhere; that would be harassment) and wait for women to come to them.
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