> I mean, for watching the kids while the adults defile each other's bodies. > > Erm... So italie saying that he enjoys playing with and parenting his kids relates to > an orgy how?
I thought Tom was saying that's what he did. Or maybe he meant me. While I have done group events, I haven't in a while. Now, the local poly group people are an interesting lot. One woman whom I think has never married, and is a teacher (college or high school), has two now-teenage daughters with whom she has always been up front about her socio-sexual preferences. They've met boyfriends and girlfriends.
After the obsolescence of religion, it's only a minor step to stop using Morality as a guiding tool. (She's moral, of course, but her morality is more capable than most people's.)
Consider it high comedy....sincere tragedy....whatever...don't take it personally.