> > > i have no kids or spouse i am too shy to ask girls out maybe that is why i have > too > > > much time putting these links up for all the dumb videos. Work way too many hours > > 65 > > > to 70+ so have very limited time to really go out and ask a girl out am always > > lonely > > > but i have you all out there to keep me stay positive > > > > Are you serious? > > Have you tried alcohol? That's probably a bad advice, but sometimes it works... you > > lose all your self-critical and so you wont give a damn about rejection, then it is > > possible to reach as many women as necessary to finally find one open to your > > advances. No matter how you look, there will always be available to women. > > As nice as it would be to be in a relationship - knowing that someone is desperate > enough to want to be with someone that drinks.... Well, I think that says more about > them. Like, they're either desperate or don't give a flip (and you probably won't be > with them for very long anyway -when they find someone else). > > But that's just my opinion, and I'd rather be with someone with some standards.
I'm not talking about serious relationships, I'm talking about getting out of the security bubble. Yes, alcohol can kill you, but depression can also kill you. Metroduck's post seemed I post from I depressed guy... maybe I should tell him to seek a psychologist instead of alcohol, but alcohol, a night club and some girls have the potential to be way funnier to a shy guy.
Also, you don't need to get into the bottle, just some beers may be enough... and a girl don't need to be desperate to want someone that drinks a bit to loose its shyness.